Dr. Mehl, 73, the son of European immigrants who escaped the Holocaust, grew up in Brooklyn and spent his whole 50-year profession at N.Y.U., the place he may usually be discovered within the hallway kibitzing with lab technicians, cafeteria staff or safety guards. Colleagues referred to him because the Mayor of N.Y.U.
He may be unabashedly emotional. “When he dropped me off at summer season camp, he’d be the one father crying,” his daughter mentioned.
Dr. Mehl was a voracious reader — historical past books about World Conflict II, Israel and the USA had been his favorites. When he traveled, he’d get up every morning to deal with an exhausting itinerary of museums, monuments and eating places. “He’d be planning the following trip even earlier than we got here dwelling,” mentioned his spouse, Nancy Greenwald.
At a time when many medical doctors are plotting retirement, Dr. Mehl insisted on working full time, although final March, he lastly agreed to take off Fridays. He laid out a meticulous plan for that first Friday: Get up, learn the newspaper, return to mattress, eat breakfast, after which have a nap. However he awoke that day with again ache, and when it turned excruciating, Ms. Greenwald determined to name an ambulance. (4 of the sufferers he had handled the earlier week, they later realized, had examined constructive for the virus.)
It was solely when the ambulance crew refused to permit her to climb inside that Ms. Greenwald realized her husband is likely to be sick with the coronavirus. Her most searing reminiscence was standing outdoors N.Y.U. later that day as a protracted line of ambulances, their lights flashing, waited to drop sufferers off on the emergency room. A number of days later, she, too, fell ailing with Covid-19 however rapidly recovered.
In one among his final conversations earlier than being intubated, Dr. Mehl assured his spouse and daughter he’d be awake in 10 days, however not earlier than making a wisecrack concerning the awful meals. He lingered on a ventilator for 50 days, and died on Could 20.
If you’re having ideas of suicide, name the Nationwide Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 (TALK). You’ll find an inventory of extra sources at SpeakingOfSuicide.com/sources.